If your partner always asks you to do it from behind, it’s because he is… See more

Well, rear entry/doggie style sexual intercourse is a position that obviates eye contact, and thus a certain level of intimacy with your partner. You’re fucking, not necessarily “making love”. There is nothing wrong with that.

bedroom with you? Do you two kiss at all? Do you two share activities and interests? Is he invested in you as much as you are into him? If so, how does he express his love and interest in you as a partner and lover?

Great sex does not mean you have a great relationship overall. But disengaged and perfunctory sex does mean you have problems with emotional and physical connection. Is it worth it to work through such issues? Only you can answer that.

You two need to have a heart-to-heart discussion. You need to confirm you’re both on the same page as far as your individual needs, wants, and desires. You need to confirm you both agree to let each other know if these needs, wants, and desires shift or otherwise change in terms of variety, intensity, or frequency. You need to confirm that you two both are invested enough with each other before doing the hard work of repairing a relationship that no longer works for one or both of you.

All the best to both of you in your individual and shared journeys.

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